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I feel so out of control. I am envisioning my new life, relatively joyless, sexless, lonely, and isolated. And all of this angst and sadness is being experienced in secret. How does one handle heartbreak that is a secret? Part of me wonders if I am even entitled to any of this grief, that maybe I deserve this for being an adulterer. Anonymous Newton, Massachusetts Dear Ontoing, What strikes me most in your letter is the contradiction between the joy you say your lover brings you and your description of how he treats you.

Part of me wonders if I am even entitled to any of this grief, that maybe I deserve this for being an adulterer.

Dear Therapist is for informational purposes only, does not constitute medical advice, and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Early on, when the sexual problems became apparent, how did you and your husband talk about them?

Was your therapist truly suggesting that you deceive your husband with a covert affair, or rather that you talk with him about the possibility of opening up the marriage and see if the two of you might find a different way forward? As you think back to how these interactions went, do you feel that you were a true partner in working through this issue together, or did you feel so personally injured, so much like the helpless victim in this story, that you framed this as something that your husband needed to work out alone?

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You take away the secrecy. Do they delight in our presence?

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No matter what you come to decide, remember that a marriage, like a broken heart, is healed from the inside, not the outside. Perhaps without realizing it, you sought fog what felt familiar to you from your childhood—the pain of feeling helpless and alone. I am envisioning my new life, relatively joyless, sexless, lonely, and isolated. Meanwhile, in your marriage, as in many marriages hjsband lack physical intimacy, what you see reflected back to you is likely the opposite: You feel invisible, undesired, and unheard when it comes to your wants and needs.

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Instead, you unilaterally decided to direct all of your sexual and emotional energy outside the marriage, making it even harder for your husband to connect with you on any level. Always seek the advice of your physician, mental-health professional, or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition.

As adults, many of them end up in marriages that resemble their childhood. Do they see our beauty?

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Anonymous Newton, Massachusetts Dear Anonymous, What strikes me most in your letter is the contradiction between the joy you say your lover brings you and your description of how he treats you. Do we matter to them?

If so, an image of ourselves as worthy and lovable is womaj back to us, and we begin to integrate it into a positive self-image. Sexual issues can stem from so many causes: health problems, stress, poor communication, medication side effects, a history of abuse, trauma, negative body image—and all of these are tangled up with feelings a person has around being wanted and loved, and feeling connected to someone else.

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Meanwhile, your husband may not know about your affair or he may know more than you imagine, prompting his job search across the countrybut as much as you feel his distance from you, surely he wlman your distance from him. And all of this angst and sadness is being experienced in secret. Children who lack this reflection experience heartbreak and grieve alone, because the adults they husbznd normally share their inner worlds with are the very people they feel hurt by.

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Instead of seeing his behavior for what it is—manipulative, menacing, controlling, and cruel—you seem to idealize lokking lover as the source of your happiness, which indicates to me that your distorted ideas about love and connection have deep roots. Asit takes form in the mirror our parents hold up to us. Do they respond to our wants and needs?

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How does one handle heartbreak that is a secret? I feel so out of control. So how do you gusband heartbreak that is a secret?

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